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Estate Planning for Blended Families in Minnesota

On Behalf of | Jun 16, 2025 | Firm News

Blended families are common, and they bring unique estate planning challenges. If you or your spouse have children from a previous relationship, it’s especially important to create a plan that protects everyone you love.

What Makes Estate Planning Different for Blended Families?

When all children are shared children, and the spouses generally agree on everything, planning is easier. In a blended family, complexities may make planning more difficult. Without clear instructions, assets may go to people you didn’t intend, and important relationships may be damaged.

Common concerns include:

  • Protecting your current spouse while still providing for your children
  • Ensuring children from a prior marriage aren’t unintentionally disinherited
  • Clarifying who controls assets if you pass away first
  • Preventing conflict between stepparents and stepchildren

Tools to Consider

Some tools that can help protect blended families include:

  • Wills that clearly name beneficiaries and guardians
  • Revocable living trusts to control how and when assets are passed
  • Life insurance policies designated for specific children or a spouse
  • Prenuptial or postnuptial agreements to clarify financial expectations

It’s Not Just About Being Fair — It’s About Being Clear

Every blended family is different. That’s why a “one-size-fits-all” will isn’t good enough. With thoughtful planning, you can prevent misunderstandings and make sure your wishes are carried out without confusion or conflict.

Ready to Talk?

If you’re part of a blended family and want to make sure your estate plan works for your unique situation, contact Sheila Kelly today. From her office in White Bear Lake, she helps families across the Twin Cities plan wisely and with care.